

Om avsnittet
A conversation about how to make love, relate, and grow with consciousness in a romantic relationship. Ben and Kasia, therapist share their own experiences—and in this episode, you won’t just be touched by their words, but by the energy between them. You'll also walk away with plenty of inspiration to bring into your own love life. Ben made a speciel poem that he shares for the first time here: The one lover Life is the wildest lover kind and ruthless, passionate and gentle, raw and carnal. I can be quietly making my tea in the kitchen and then a moment later i’m bent over the kitchen counter eyes rolling back in my head while life fucks the foolishness out of me, my dream of control scattered in a mess of spilt tea and sweat, broken hopes and ideas. Sometimes she is gentle tender, her touch as sweet and intimate as windblown reeds or the silk seed parachutes of spring. My surrender is up to me Will I listen? Can I feel and soften under her caress? Her touch is everywhere and all at once inside and outside reaching soft fingers to caress my sensuous heart and blessing my ears with crystal birdsong and the river’s quiet murmur. I need only take a step towards her and our love affair opens and blooms presence meeting presence and our orgasm is petals and butterflies, eagles and leaping fish. She knows how to play the long game too fucking me slowly with mundanity and doubt while I forget she is even there imagining I am alone and my lover gone. She never leaves though and these long slow sessions can be wild indeed building over days or even weeks until at last I cum in a spray of remembrance, stars and truth. There is no technique she will not use and savage is her love I am ravaged by grief and loss broken open by despair, her nails on my back leave bloody trails of friends lost and sick children weeping of war and greed and desperate endings. Her cruel hands shredding my identity and cracking a fragile self image to bring forth all the colours of a total love, golden afternoon sunlight and the steady drip of red blood. The ultimate polyamorous lover yet forever faithful I am loved in the way I must be loved fucked in ways I never knew i could be fucked, perfectly mercilessly wonderfully intimate. A lover that hears my every footfall touches me more softly than breath, that can listen to my single song, my broken praising amid the sound of a billion voices then reach to bless me with a love as deep as essence as perfect as the twist of DNA I twirl my soul around. Oh my love I give myself to you into your arms i fall. Kiss me hard kiss me tender kiss me until I can taste only you your breath is my breath my heart is your heart my love is your love. I have always been yours and yours I will forever be. Take me, lose me, break me heal me, turn me, open me. I am yours will you be mine? And together we will moan our passion so even the stars blush and hide their silver faces sharing secret stories that only we can speak while the sweat dries…